Deelishis REVEALS Deets About BEING Raped At Age 18, Her Husband Says, "You Led That Man On!" (VIDEO)

Jan 22 | by _YBF

We told you earlier that reality TV star Deelishis would be appearing in the Detroit-based Motor City Wives. And recently, she's seen in a shocking video where she talks about being raped when she was 18. But here's the kicker....her husband says she led on her rapist! Watch the clip inside and speak on it....

During an interview with S2S editor Jamie Foster Brown, Deelishis revealed details about her past.

As her husband, Orlando Gordon, fried up some chicken, the reality star told a very in-depth story about being raped at 18 by a man whom she had a crush on (she was alone with him at his house).

But as Deelishis told the story, her husband gave his opinion about her putting herself in a situation saying, "You led that man on!"

They then began a discussion about the meaning of "no" with Deelishis saying a woman has the right to say no at any time she wants to stop. And it DOES NOT give a man the right to commit rape if something sexual has already occurred.

Watch the video below:

So....what do you think? Does Orlando have a point about women putting themselves in certain situations? Or is that all a moot point because women have the right to stop any and all sexual acts any time they want?

SIDEBAR: Orlando was recently indicted in federal court for participating in a drug ring and Deelishis' engagement ring was confiscated!

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Women live in an alternate

Women live in an alternate reality. If you don't want to have sex with a guy don't go to his house and get in a sexual situation with him! I don't want to get burned so I won't play around fire. It's that simple.

by Anonymous
7:15 am - Apr 6, '12

The comments on this site

The comments on this site show me exactly why rape and domestic violence stand to be unaddressed issues in the black community. No means no. Even if a woman is walking around nakes and shaking her behind, that does not give anyone the right to rape her. Period. Rape is not about what she was doing, where she was at. Men are human beings able to make choices. You know when sex is not consensual, when someone is not able to consent to it and when you are so threatening that they feel they can not say no. That is rape. And the fact that this woman is married to this man makes me feel even sadder. We also need to note that just because someone has a image as a "hoe" in the media, does not take away their ability to express what has happened to them in the past as far as assault. Please educate yourselves on rape and assault and prevent it by changing your ideology.

by AshleyF
5:26 pm - Jan 26, '12

who are raising these men

who are raising these men these days to beleive this is ok

by miss infamous
1:52 pm - Jan 26, '12

everyone is focusing on the

everyone is focusing on the *alleged* rape from the point of view of an 18 year old girl. yes she was stupid for getting herself into that situation but that doesn't make her guilty of anything...NOW.... nobody is focusing on the *alleged* rape from the point of view of the old nasty pervert that did it. yes, she allowed him to go down on her and yes, he may have been caught up in the moment, BUT... no matter the situation that lead up to the assault, in HIS eyes, a 18 year old girl pleaded and begged for him to stop. he had time to register his decision and went on ahead and forced himself on her anyway.... of all the comments on here talking about what she should-a-could-a done and what they would have done... but no comments about "if i were in that MAN's position i would have...." she may have been stupid but he was guilty

by Anonymous
3:08 am - Jan 26, '12

All these women who claim

All these women who claim they got raped, I wish the men can come out too, so it won't be so one sided. Until then, it was consensual.

by anon
4:32 pm - Jan 25, '12

NO MEANS NO!!! You ppl are

NO MEANS NO!!! You ppl are sick to think otherwise. Sick!

by QueenSafira
1:38 pm - Jan 24, '12

Yes, there is something to be

Yes, there is something to be said about putting yourself in vulnerable situations. However at the end of the day, No still means no. I can't believe there are men still walking around with these effed up mentalities. One of my college girlfriends wound up at a male friend's house. It was hot outside and he asked her in for a cool drink. When she got inside, he asked her to put on a CD. She chose an R. Kelly CD. In this dude's mind, that was the green light. Thankfully he did not rape her, but she had bruises and bite marks. An R. Kelly CD was his excuse!! Most men are looking for any reason to get the panties.

by SweetDivaT
10:37 am - Jan 24, '12

I COMPLETELY agree! No, 100%,

I COMPLETELY agree! No, 100%, means no. No matter what point she says it. Period. And yes all of us need to be careful about not putting ourselves in vulnerable positions.

by chantayk
3:13 pm - Jan 26, '12

That whole thing makes me so

That whole thing makes me so upset. That's why my son's shirt that I made him says "Born to Treat Women Right"(and I love that he sees how much that means to women who see it, and he feels it). because that is my mission, to raise a strong man of God, who has accountability to God, and knows that he must love a woman as Christ loved the Church-he must treasure his woman. Until that marriage day, he's gonna have to keep it in check, and try his best not to put himself or a girl he likes into those temptational positions. But even if ever is, that he must always treat her with respect, and no matter how hot the situation gets, or frustratin or whatever, that he's gotta put God first in loving her and respecting her in his actions.

by Quintessential Woman : >
3:32 am - Jan 24, '12

That whole thing makes me so

by Quintessential Woman : >
3:29 am - Jan 24, '12

He should have done what I

He should have done what I do.. rub my head on her clit, then ask her to rub my dick on her clit while I suck her tits.. then I rub it my self and ask her to put her hands around me, then I put the head in.. she says "No sex" I agree, then I tell her that I m only gonna put it in this much (head in only), then I rub my head on her clit for 2 - 3 minutes then slowly push it in. Give her a 2 minute smash.. bust i my hand. and when the girl asks "is that all?".. I say.. dang girl, I was hard for 40 minutes.. what do you expect". Then I fall to sleep.

by Toronto Dude
2:55 am - Jan 24, '12

NO MEANS NO under any

NO MEANS NO under any circumstance, no matter what anyone is wearing, what their age, what their gender, or what other foreplay may have occurred. The fact that this topic is even a "debate" is exactly why so many women still get raped. Likewise, parents need to keep their horny ass sons in line from an early age and teach their daughters that the way women view sex and romance is NOT the way men view it. And no matter how stupid/ trusting the girl is NO STILL MEANS NO. If someone forces you, call the cops. You will likely be saving someone else.

by PandaWife
6:50 pm - Jan 23, '12

Obviously she still has

Obviously she still has issues that she hasnt gotten over from this rape or any other ause she suffered because she continues to put her sexuality out there as if thats all she has to offer the world. Everyday u see her in another photoshoot showing her ass. Come from a good family my ass? She is a mother but yet she acts like a teenage tramp that has no self respect. She obviously makes bad decisions marrying a man that is a drug dealing cheater, but who also seems totally insensitive to the fact that she got raped. He basically said she deserved it. I couldnt even b friends with someone that says that my rape (God forbid ) was justified. She really needs to get her shit together because she will end up washed up and alone when this man goes to jail. Then shes really gonna have to take naked pics smdh! What a great role model for her kids

by Anonymous
4:01 pm - Jan 23, '12

This reminds me of Kobe Bray

This reminds me of Kobe Bray case no matter what during the act or not when a women says no that means NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by Anonymous
1:13 pm - Jan 23, '12

This interview is old like a

This interview is old like a good year or two old.

by Anonymous
12:38 pm - Jan 23, '12

Wow, I like Deelishis a

Wow, I like Deelishis a little bit more after hearing her speak on that situation. Sounds like she came from a good home, knew better than to be sleeping with the man, and knows what he did was dead wrong. Yes she wshouldn't have gone in the house, but that does not give anyone the right to rape her! I know we've all done something in life that we shouldn't have, from jaywalking, to running a red light. Next time you're in the crosswalk and the light changes, ask yourself-Does that give the car at the light to run your butt down? I mean, you shouldn't be in the crosswalk, right?

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by Anonymous
11:56 am - Jan 23, '12

Helll YEEE!! Finally It

by Anonymous
11:54 am - Jan 23, '12

WOW...THE GIRL IS BUSY! She

WOW...THE GIRL IS BUSY! She is also starring in a movie called LOUD PACK http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBYrOHtm8_s

by Anonymous
11:35 am - Jan 23, '12

Wow. Yes, no means no, but

Wow. Yes, no means no, but she let him go down on her and then when he wants more she says no. She led him on big time. Hugging, kissing, a feel here and there, okay stop. Everyone is not the same. Her husband respected her enough to stop, but this dude who hangs around a high school evidently looking for young girls, is not trying to stop after he done gave you head. Seriously. That's crazy Daisy!

by CoCo
11:10 am - Jan 23, '12

I would like to start with

I would like to start with the biggest disclaimer one can make, "No, definitely means No!". However I think it is clear by now that some men do not accept that or comply with that, to the own personal shame and disgrace. So what do we do? Continue to play Russian roulette with our bodies or do we begin to teach young women that they must protect and preserve their most valuable possession (their bodies) to their up most ability. Therefore you do not let a man touch, taste, smell, borrow, rent any part of your space or body without some sort of assurance (like marriage perhaps), that the person is prepared to honor you and body. If you give partial access to your body to someone that you have no evidence of love, honor, patience, respect on their part towards you, then you are at best, playing yourself!! Its not just rape you become susceptible to. HIV, herpes, chlamydia, and the rest. Ladies simply guard yourselves. RESPECT yourselves, before you expect a cheap thrill to. To like sex is not a crime, but to like pleasure and sex before liking and respecting yourself should be.

by Anonymous
10:59 am - Jan 23, '12

So what do we do? Hmmm How

So what do we do? Hmmm How about teaching men NOT to rape? Is that to outrageous to you? Because no matter how much some women take care or respect themselves they still get raped. What's your logic for this? Yeah this wouldn't happened if there weren't any rapists. And also if we're teaching little girls to respect themselves we should start teaching boys to RESPECT. Period

by Anonymous
1:26 pm - Jan 23, '12

In short although its very

In short although its very important to teach young men to respect women, no matter the circumstance, we can can prevent a lot of tragedy by teaching young women to be accountable to themselves for their OWN choices and encourage them to make better ones.

by Anonymous
2:44 pm - Jan 23, '12

So what we do? Yes we should

So what we do? Yes we should teach young men to respect women and not to rape them, regardless of the circumstance. Absolutely. However sadly we all know that rape will continue to happen. It won't disappear tomorrow, because its a sin, and just like lying, murder, fornication, stealing, people will continue to sin (largely because we reject Christ). However maturity must recognize there is a difference, however slight between the woman who is randomly grabbed and raped, and the woman who has placed herself willingly in a sexually compromising situation, with someone she really doesn't know. If a woman does not want to have sex, engaging in sexual activity is not very smart. There are some grey areas with this subject, but I believe bottom line, it would help tremendously if we simply taught young girls if they don't want to have sex, keep your knickers on!!! Teach them that although they might just want a kiss and cuddle, some guys don't want to just kiss and cuddle and they must be careful. Some women can do nothing to prevent being raped, but there are some who can. Lets start with them.

by Anonymous
2:34 pm - Jan 23, '12

I hate her wig.

by Anonymous
10:19 am - Jan 23, '12

I agree that No means No but

I agree that No means No but at the same time you can't put yourself in sticky situations and not expect things to go left.

by Queen
9:38 am - Jan 23, '12

I agree, NO means NO. Yet at

I agree, NO means NO. Yet at the same time she shouldn't have put herself in that situation. Her azz was fast, point, blank, period because she was 18 crushing about a guy that was 10 years older than her. Now I'm not saying that is justification for her to get raped but she needs to recognize the position that she put herself in. Cuz I'm not going to walk into a room full of hungry tigers expecting not to be their next meal. If she wasn't in the bedroom alone with a grown man, drinking alcohol, with whom she had a crush on, listening to Jodeci, allowing him to perfom oral sex on her, she wouldn't have had a reason to say, NO.

by Anonymous
8:53 am - Jan 23, '12

I agree with her husband.

by Ethel Re-loaded
8:51 am - Jan 23, '12

NO MEANS NO MEANS NO MEANS

NO MEANS NO MEANS NO MEANS NO! To all those saying she brought it on yourself, wait till it happens to you! A HUMAN BEING can comprehend the word NO and STOP, idgaf how turned on they are POINT BLANK PERIOD, Women are in ownership of their own bodies...yall go find a corner to have several seats in!

by laflare
2:00 am - Jan 23, '12

It's not gon' happen to me,

It's not gon' happen to me, because I know not to go to some older man's house alone (when I liked him and knew he liked me, knowing the likelihood/temptation of sex taking place), for one. I wouldn't let him eat my box if I didn't want it, for two. Nor would I let him get that far with me and tell him to stop when he wanted sex and I didn't, for three. I know well enough not to put myself in that situation by giving him the slightest idea I wanted to engage in sex of any kind with him, period. I wouldn't be so naive/stupid as to let him eat me out and then think he would or would want to stop there. I would've had sense enough to know not to go there because I would've known from the get-go all he would've wanted from me was sex. Knowing I would not want sex, I would not be at his house. I know that now, and I had enough sense to know that at 18. So you can miss me with the "when it happens to you" bull. Now you go find a damn corner to sit in, with a dunce cap, a pack of crayons, and a coloring book; with your simple ass.

by Anonymous
2:53 am - Jan 23, '12

Hine-sight is 20/20 and it

Hine-sight is 20/20 and it really bothers me when ppl say what would or would not happen to them because they would have handled the situation differently! Back in the day, males went as openly savage as they are today. Yes, there's always been "pockets of men" here and there that you had to watch out for but for the most part, men were not interested in RAPING women! If she said yes then changed her mind he might be upset but he never pushed the issue to the point of FORCING HIMSELF ON HER! Certain things the majority of men back in the day knew were just wrong. In today's society where black women and little black girls are regarded as nothing more than sex toys, yeah i would say don't even speak to 90% of the black males you see on the street, meet in a club, or attend school with. In any event, SHE IS NOT TO BLAME! HE RAPED HER AND THAT'S JUST THAT!

by Anonymous
11:55 am - Jan 24, '12

women, that's why you need to

women, that's why you need to take time to know a person's characater as much as possible, take time to know him. as chris rock says, when you first meet someone, you meet their representative. in other words, everyone tries to put their best foot forward in the beginning, but if you spend enough time with them, the real person will eventually emerge.

by Anonymous
1:07 am - Jan 23, '12

I see a few of you "women"

I see a few of you "women" are dumb as hell. Sex without consent is rape period. Thats just like saying since you left a window open, its ok for someone to rob you...knock it off. For all of your who put blame on the victim be careful your arrogance might lead you into a situation to learn that a lesson

by knockitoff
11:25 pm - Jan 22, '12

OMG i amjust amazed at these

OMG i amjust amazed at these dumba** comments! RAPE is RAPE and there is nothing that a victim has done to deserve being raped! I am so disappointed in blacks, especially black women as of late. We've seen child pornography all over the net yet the victim is blamed. We hear this horrific story about a young woman being raped and again its her fault. At what point is WRONG just that?

by Anonymous
12:12 pm - Jan 24, '12

why will you leave your

why will you leave your window open, knowing full well what might happen in that situation. You only have control of yourself, take as much precaution as you can take. Comparing an open window and a girl who shouldn't have been there alone in the first place doesn't make sense. You are the one who is dumb as hell, referring to yourself.

by anon
5:38 am - Jan 23, '12

It's not saying by leaving

It's not saying by leaving your window open, it's okay to get robbed. The point is, if you know there are crazy and careless people in the world, or a lot of crime going on, or criminals on the loose, you should be cautious about leaving that window open. It's better to be safe than sorry, so why chance it by leaving it open!? Close and lock your windows. Don't make it easy for someone to come in. If they break it, they break it, then call the police. It's not like D's situation was inevitable. There were several things that could've been done differently to prevent it, and you can start with the choices she made.

by Anonymous
1:32 am - Jan 23, '12

When a person says they were

When a person says they were raped there are always people who will question them. That is the very reason alot of people do not report their rape. Then when they finally get the courage to come forward, people question their timing and memory. Its sad they way society treats these people.

by Zinga!
11:19 pm - Jan 22, '12

You have people who are still

You have people who are still thinking in the society. You can't come and tell me 1+ 1=1 and expect me to just accept it. It takes two to tangle. It depends on each story. In this situation, she put herself in it. It wasn't like the rapist dude bust open into her room and forced her. She went over to a guy's house she had a crush on. Instead of always blaming the perpertrators, what can the victim do differently bcos you will always have sick people in the world. Let's teach young girls how to make good judgements about men. Let's teach young girls, don't expect to be treated opposite if you are sending a certain message. Let's teach young girls how to listen and have a srong mind of their own. Let's teach young girls how to also carry, respect themselves.

by anon
6:09 am - Jan 23, '12

Let's teach young boys how to

Let's teach young boys how to respect women. Let's teach boys that as soon as the girl withdraws consent is rape. Let's teach young boys that a girl or woman's body is no public property. Let's teach young boys that girls are free to wear whatever they like without inciting violence.

by Anonymous
1:38 pm - Jan 23, '12

For men to respect you, you

For men to respect you, you have to respect yourself first. Let's teach some women to stop displaying their body as a public property. Let's teach young boys that girls are free to wear whatever they like without inciting violence? So, if a girl has her boobs out, ass out, so you expect all the men to just look away, when the woman herself has an agenda. Dressing provocatively brings the wrong attention. You must live on another planet. Men easily are blamed in every situation. Men are dogs, can't control themselves, that's how the society portray all the time.

by anon
6:51 pm - Jan 23, '12

Won't somebody please think

Won't somebody please think of the poor oppressed men? :( They can't see boobs and ass and not touch!! :(:( And men easily blamed? hahah more like women easily blamed for some crime they didn't even commit ie. rape.

by Anonymous
3:29 am - Jan 25, '12

Men are blamed BECAUSE THEY

Men are blamed BECAUSE THEY ARE GUILTY! That "men are dogs" line is a load of crap! Men and Boys have to be taught how to conduct themsleves of they will get RAPED IN A PRISON CELL! Teach them that and I bet they would learn how to behave quick fast and in a hurry!

by Anonymous
12:33 pm - Jan 24, '12

ffs are you retarded or what?

ffs are you retarded or what? if a woman has her boobs out why doy think that means you have permission to touxh them? and men are ALWAYS PREACHING how they're men, they have penises , they can't help themselv es, that isn't women's fault or society's, it's MEN.stfd

by Anonymous
9:04 pm - Jan 23, '12

What? First, go improve on

What? First, go improve on your spelling. Men don't have the right to touch a woman just bcos she has her boobs out. My point is, women ask for it too, when it happens, they want to act like "I'M SO INNOCENT OR I'M SUCH A VICTIM", when you knew what you were doing. Just the same way the men are blamed for it, women have a big role to play too.

by anon
11:57 pm - Jan 23, '12

You're wrong on so many

You're wrong on so many levels. Women may wear provocative clothes but that doesn't mean they want to have sex with just anybody. Women have a right to choose who they want have sex with. And stop defending abusive men, they always find a way to justify their behavior, sometimes it's a short skirt other times it's a different thing. If you're a woman I feel bad for you because in that case any man can justify raping you, following your logic.

by Anonymous
3:22 am - Jan 25, '12

NO means NO!!!!! Young boys

NO means NO!!!!! Young boys need to be taught this and to learn to be responsible MEN and exercise self control!! Her husband sounds like a freaking neanderthal!!!

by p1tey1
11:19 pm - Jan 22, '12

I agree 100%...From Flav to

I agree 100%...From Flav to this guy, seems she could do better...

by CorpAtty
11:24 pm - Jan 22, '12

Delishis is 100% right. But

Delishis is 100% right. But there is a difference between the law of the book and the law of the jungle. Law of the jungle and self preservation is that we don't put ourselves in situations where animals can take advantage. When they do, we have recourse (whether we choose to use it or not as it doesn't seem she pressed charges). I take her 100% at her word that she didn't see it coming and was helpless to stop it. I'm more distressed at her husband's callous disregard for what was a traumatic experience...Insult to injury, he's keekeeing it up and frying chicken....sigh...

by CorpAtty
11:09 pm - Jan 22, '12

Another sad case of blaming

Another sad case of blaming the victim and not the perpatrator. When will our society learn that victims need support, not blame?

by Anonymous
9:51 pm - Jan 22, '12

NO means NO, but let's not be

NO means NO, but let's not be stupid. she was 18, not 14. She wasn't that naive, she knew enough to lie to her parents and go to his house ALONE. I would have known that was wrong at 12. Come one now!!