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Terrence J. Dishes On Dating SELITA EBANKS, Loving Cougars, & Staying A "Nice Guy"

Terrence J covers the fall issue of "BLEU" Magazine where he opens up about reaching his full potential as an artist, dating a younger woman (Selita Ebanks) and staying a nice guy while his career is on Lift Off mode.  Get highlights and inside pics inside....

Currently making headlines for being the catalyst for a vicious girlfight between Selita Ebanks and model chick Liza Irizarry, Terrance J opens up about love and romance, his career aspirations and what he wants for his future in the latest issue of BLEU Magazine.  Here are some highlights.  And note--Selita is indeed 28 years old:

On becoming a better actor
I'm not anywhere near where I think my full potential is. Hopefully one day I'll be able to play a young Barack Obama coming out of law school or Sidney Poitier right before he got his Oscar."

On being complete as an individual before leaping into a relationship
I hate the phrase you complete me. I think it should be two complete people that get together and they make history together and they make an impact together. I'm at a place now where I'm able to be a good man in a relationship because I've been through so much.

On being a cougar lover
I dig mature women. I dig a woman that knows what she wants, that's comfortable in her skin and confident with her swag. Older women have been able to fulfill that.

On his current relationship status
I'm dating a girl that's younger. She's not much younger but she's 28 and I'm 29 so she's younger than me." She's an amazing person. I just think timing is everything. It can be the perfect person, but if it's not the perfect time then it's not going to work.

On how he wants people to remember him
I always felt that no matter where my career goes, I just want people to leave the room and say 'hey, he was a nice guy.

On his future personal plans
The aspiration is marriage and kids...building a family and leaving a legacy...As I'm entering into my 30′s, I'm looking forward to all those things

 

Check out pics from the article:

Nice.

Photos via Bleu Magazine

 

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Selita is such a slut. She

Selita is such a slut. She been with everybody. Terrance is a handsome, educated guy he can do much better than her.
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Selita is such a slut. She

Selita is such a slut. She been with everybody. Terrance is a handsome, educated guy he can do much better than her.
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Selita is such a slut. She

Selita is such a slut. She been with everybody. Terrance is a handsome, educated guy he can do much better than her.
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Selita is such a slut. She

Selita is such a slut. She been with everybody. Terrance is a handsome, educated guy he can do much better than her.
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Selita is such a slut. She

Selita is such a slut. She been with everybody. Terrance is a handsome, educated guy he can do much better than her.
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I really like Terrance J. I

I really like Terrance J. I hope this relationship lasts for awhile because Selita seems to move on fast. I also like the pics of Terrance.
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I like Terrance J and thinks

I like Terrance J and thinks he is cute but I hate the pics he just must not be photogenic!!
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He's seems like a nice

He's seems like a nice guy!...I wish he and Selita the best!
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Terrance is looking pretty

Terrance is looking pretty appealing to me. Sexy, "grown". I was really impressed with his acting skills on The Game. Hope he continues to shine! God bless you sir!.
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He is so fine and him and

He is so fine and him and Selita make a good look she always seems to mk the guys want to marry her gotta love black love Go Girl u got a winner here he going places fast.
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From a HBCU communications

From a HBCU communications major looking at the success of another HBCU communications major live his dreams , I don't care about his lips or his looks- I am so proud of him! Congrats Aggie! From the Bears den!
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From a HBCU communications

From a HBCU communications major looking at the success of another HBCU communications major live his dreams , I don't care about his lips or his looks- I am so proud of him! Congrats Aggie! From the Bears den!
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Very handsome and intelligent

Very handsome and intelligent young man. Good luck with your aspirations.
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I think "dating" Selita E

I think "dating" Selita E Banks is code for i'm looking for an older woman who can set me up for life, and wear the pants. BET host has no longevity.
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Terence is looking very gay

Terence is looking very gay
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HOW U DOIN TERRANCE.

HOW U DOIN TERRANCE.
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Wtf is "bleu" magazine? Looks

Wtf is "bleu" magazine? Looks like some glossy JC Penney catalog. Am I the only one to notice the article spells our President's name wrong in the enlarged quote? It is spelled "BARAK OBAMA" instead of "BARACK OBAMA". Pitiful.
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OMG! You are right! It is

OMG! You are right! It is wrongly spelled as "Barak" in that quote. AND Sidney Poitier's name is wrongly spelled "Sydney Protier", too. Lol. What kind of b.s. magazine is this? Wow.
Anonymous's picture

Just reading a few of these

Just reading a few of these comments, its a lot of hattas and a lot of down play towards my man Terrence. Hattas are nothing but confused fans wishing they were in a position to where they are seen on tv on a weekly basis,meeting n being friends with major celebs let alone films.magazines etc. Who can hate on that? People will hate reguardless wheather positive or negative smh. He's a positive black brotha with a education and career.
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Just reading a few of these

Just reading a few of these comments, its a lot of hattas and a lot of down play towards my man Terrence. Hattas are nothing but confused fans wishing they were in a position to where they are seen on tv on a weekly basis,meeting n being friends with major celebs let alone films.magazines etc. Who can hate on that? People will hate reguardless wheather positive or negative smh. He's a positive black brotha with a education and career.
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No sweetie, his name is

No sweetie, his name is spelled "Barack Obama" you might want to google him.
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No, "Sweetie", and you might

No, "Sweetie", and you might want to get your damn eyes checked, because if you look at the enlarged quote like "Spelling Bee" said, you will see that it is wrongly spelled like "BARAK" when it should be spelled as "BARACK" like "Spelling Bee" correctly pointed out. So, you STFD, STFU, and then and google the word "jackass" for yourself.
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Wtf is "bleu" magazine? Looks like some glossy JC Penney catalog. Am I the only one to notice the article spells our President's name wrong in the enlarged quote? It is spelled "BARAK OBAMA" instead of "BARACK". Pitiful.
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Terrence seems really nice,

Terrence seems really nice, comes across well in this interview.
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Terrence reminds me of my 21

Terrence reminds me of my 21 year old brother.. He's nice, though not my type... My Grandma had a saying "He couldn't snore in my face.." LOL.. I dig spiritual and intellectual guys with a sense of humor and swag.. I love to smell great colonge, on handsome men... I love distinguished gentlemen. With LOVE..365
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why is everyone giving him a

why is everyone giving him a hard time calling him lame and corny? lol isnt there really only 106 and park and the game to judge him off of?yall talking about this dude like hes in a lot of stuff to judge his character lol
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Wow..after reading the page

Wow..after reading the page of comments...I guess I'm biased in liking Terrance, maybe it's b/c he's a hometown dude that graduated from A&T and was an intern on 102 jamz...I truely believe it's the simple fact that he is educated and a bit goofy that makes you all have these jaded thoughts about him...ladies if you don't like a good guy who can make you laugh and your heart smile, you do not deserve one...#carryon
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Good for him! He's come a

Good for him! He's come a long way from when he first started 106 & Park!
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He looks so how you doin

He looks so how you doin here. And Selita is just lowering her standards by taking it to him. Just another desperado, who can't wait till Mr right comes along.
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I heard he gets fat checks

I heard he gets fat checks from playing the Geico Lizard.
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come on ya'll he's a good

come on ya'll he's a good lookin guy, just maybe not "grown enough" or somethin for my taste. he loosk very small
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I thought AJ was a cornball

I thought AJ was a cornball till this dude came along. So he's dating the alien looking Selita whatever...Chanel is the beautiful one. Nick Cannon to Terrance DOWNGRADE!!!
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he doesnt look gay, i just

he doesnt look gay, i just think its that everyone knows how corney he really is, no matter how hard he tries...
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Dear Terrence: When you read

Dear Terrence: When you read "these" comments....Make your haters your foot stool.... Lord have Mercy people....you have to start somewhere......
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Ya'll are mean! lol

Ya'll are mean! lol
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he has a baby FACE! wow. i

he has a baby FACE! wow. i really get sucked into thinking he is in his early 20's.
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I really don't care about he

I really don't care about he looks like a normal everyday dude but those lips are full and juicy very nice....other than that could careless about him.
Anonymous's picture

Meh he does nothing for

Meh he does nothing for me,not even a slight clitoral tingle. Dont get the hype but whatevs.
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Lol at ''clitoral tingle''

Lol at ''clitoral tingle'' but why does somebody's man have to give you clitoral tingle though? don't u have a man of your own
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lol just because he's

lol just because he's somebody else's man doesnt mean another chick cant find him cute. Im sure other chicks find your man ( if u have one) fine to the point where he turns em on. ALl im saying is I just dont get the hype around Terrence, dont understand whY Selita is debo-ing chicks for him. But it is what it is.
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LMAO!!!! DEAD @"clitoral

LMAO!!!! DEAD @"clitoral tingle" rofl But i agree, im not attracted to him. but he still a very handsome guy
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I'd suck those juicy lips

I'd suck those juicy lips clean off his face.
Anonymous's picture

Wow - Terrence is giving

Wow - Terrence is giving every bit of how u doin in that cover pic...not saying he is...but that pic is not helping the cause lol
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