Terrence J covers the fall issue of "BLEU" Magazine where he opens up about reaching his full potential as an artist, dating a younger woman (Selita Ebanks) and staying a nice guy while his career is on Lift Off mode.  Get highlights and inside pics inside....

Currently making headlines for being the catalyst for a vicious girlfight between Selita Ebanks and model chick Liza Irizarry, Terrance J opens up about love and romance, his career aspirations and what he wants for his future in the latest issue of BLEU Magazine.  Here are some highlights.  And note--Selita is indeed 28 years old:

On becoming a better actor
I'm not anywhere near where I think my full potential is. Hopefully one day I'll be able to play a young Barack Obama coming out of law school or Sidney Poitier right before he got his Oscar."

On being complete as an individual before leaping into a relationship
I hate the phrase you complete me. I think it should be two complete people that get together and they make history together and they make an impact together. I'm at a place now where I'm able to be a good man in a relationship because I've been through so much.

On being a cougar lover
I dig mature women. I dig a woman that knows what she wants, that's comfortable in her skin and confident with her swag. Older women have been able to fulfill that.

On his current relationship status
I'm dating a girl that's younger. She's not much younger but she's 28 and I'm 29 so she's younger than me." She's an amazing person. I just think timing is everything. It can be the perfect person, but if it's not the perfect time then it's not going to work.

On how he wants people to remember him
I always felt that no matter where my career goes, I just want people to leave the room and say 'hey, he was a nice guy.

On his future personal plans
The aspiration is marriage and kids...building a family and leaving a legacy...As I'm entering into my 30′s, I'm looking forward to all those things

Check out pics from the article:

Nice.

Photos via Bleu Magazine