Idolize.

I'm a natural; no weave for me, and I think the word you wanted to use was citing or stating. In my opinion, the Ebony cover was celebrating her pregnancy not idealizing it. Idealize is seriously the wrong word....no one with a brain would consider having a baby out of wedlock as is ideal. I bet if you asked Nia Long if this was her ideal situation or if she would advocate becoming an unwed mother to a young girl...I'm pretty sure she'd keep it real and tell us no. My point remains...what's done is done, period. She was on the cover...and the vitriol that posts about unwed mothers illicit is proof that many of us don't think this is okay. At all.

Ok what's funny is that all u ppl spend ur time following what this/that celebrity is doing with his/her life that u ppl have forgotten how to live urs. Now many of u r sayin oh she has no values, she should know better and calling her a hood rat, Im sure she could care less of the names u ppl call her cuz that so called "hoodrat" is making more money than many of u will ever see in ur lifetime or ur kids lifetime also she doesnt know u ppl individually by name or n e thing u ppl seem to know of her and seem to care about what she's doing on the daily with her life, answer: she's living it wat u arent doing with urs cuz u r on here web stalkin her to see how she's living and wat she's doing when she could care less about u hell she doesnt know u. Here's the thing that many of u have conveniently missed, shes a grown ass woman living her life the way she wants to live her life and i am quite sure that in each of ur lives there are things that u have done that someone else can criticize u for and i know this for a fact because not one of us is perfect. Secondly since u guys are so worried about what she's doing and how she's achieving the happiness in her life, cuz trust me that woman right there is happy and all u unhappy haters cant stand it, u guys missed that Ime is not just her bf but her fiancee so soon they will make it official and i bet u kill joys will find something else to complain about. What's so funny to me are the ppl on here saying oh its wrong she should be married this n that, well how can u judge her for getting preggers without getting married first when u ppl arent saints urself cuz Im sure more than enuff of u have committed fornication which is also a sin so before u condemn her take a good look @ urself in the mirror first. Like the bible says "he who is without sin should throw the first stone" so seeing how none of us are without sin then stfu and mind ur damn business if u dont like wat u read about her or any other celebrity stop coming on blog sites and go read a book. Better yet go in the bathroom, open the cabinet and swallow all the pills cuz Im sure the air would smell a whole lot better without the pile of bullshit, aka u, around.