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Michael Irvin Covers The August 2011 Issue Of "OUT" Magazine, Taking A Stand For His Late Gay Brother And Equality

In a very open and honest interview for the August 2011 issue of OUT Magazine, NFL Hall of Famer Michael Irvin talks about his beloved gay brother, equality and acceptance, and why he is on a mission to end homophobia. 

 

Check out his pics for the issue and what he had to say inside...

In the August 2011 issue of OUT Magazine, a small group of straight sports stars who have stood up for fairness and tolerance of their LGBT peers are profiled. One of the outspoken stars in the issue is former Dallas Cowboys player Michael Irvin.   

Michael Irvin is an interesting character.  He was voted one of the best football players of all time and he fits all of the macho stereotypes associated with the sport.  He was a cocky womanizer who regularly got into trouble with the law, drugs, coaches and other players.  But now as a retired athlete and popular sportscaster, Michael has looked back on his past actions and determined many of his antics stemmed from his childhood relationship with his gay brother.

In the article he tells a story about coming home one day with his father and seeing his older bro, Vaughn, leaving the house in women's clothing.  Though the family knew Vaughn was gay, Michael says they never spoke of it. 

He later determined in therapy that many of his cocky mannerisms and womanizing ways were in response to his brother Vaughn.  He felt like he was repelling that gay vibe by sleeping with lots of women and being hypermasculine. 

"I’m not gay, but I was afraid to even let anyone have the thought. I can only imagine the agony—being a prisoner in your own mind -- for someone who wants to come out. If I’m not gay and I am afraid to mention it, I can only imagine what an athlete must be going through if he is gay.”

 

That's why Michael says he would be supportive of any major athlete who came out of the closet.

“If anyone comes out in those top four major sports, I will absolutely support him,” says Irvin. “That’s why I do my radio show every day. When these issues come out, I want to have a voice to speak about them. I think growth comes when we share. Until we do that, we’re going to be stuck in the Dark Ages about a lot of things. When a guy steps up and says, ‘This is who I am,’ I guarantee you I’ll give him 100% support.”

 

 

So what's behind Michael's new campaign for equality?  He says he realized that after all his sports accolades are footnotes, he now wants to focus creating a better society.

“The last thing I want is to go to God and have him ask, ‘What did you do?’ And I talk about winning Super Bowls and national titles,” Irvin says. “I didn’t do anything to make it a better world before I left? That would be scary.”

Now Michael is doing his part by offering a helping hand to the LGBT community.  And with homophobia being so prevelant in Black communities, he hopes others with join in.

"I don’t see how any African-American with any inkling of history can say that you don’t have the right to live your life how you want to live your life. No one should be telling you who you should love, no one should be telling you who you should be spending the rest of your life with. When we start talking about equality and everybody being treated equally, I don’t want to know an African-American who will say everybody doesn’t deserve equality.”

I think its great that Michael is bold enough to pose for the mag and talk about the homophobia in our community. Your thoughts?

Check out the full story over at Out.com.

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Please people, give me a dam

Please people, give me a dam break?!! 44yrs old, been gay, since I can remember(...to 3yrs of age), grew up in the BUCKLE of the "Bible Belt", I'll have U know that I could get a date quicker @ CHURCH, than I ever could out "party'n/clubb'n"! All these dam "Bible Thumpers/Scripture Quoters", are some of the "biggest/nastiest" FREAKS(str8 & gay!), out there! Most of these individuals, have been "affect'd & condition'd" by what they were taught(IGNORANCE!!!), ultimately U hafta live your life, for "U & only U"(Righteously, PERIOD)!!!(...meanwhile, if I'm destined for Hell, @ least, I won't be takin' the "Xpress Train"!!!};-)
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Please people, give me a dam

Please people, give me a dam break?!! 44yrs old, been gay, since I can remember(...to 3yrs of age), grew up in the BUCKLE of the "Bible Belt", I'll have U know that I could get a date quicker @ CHURCH, than I ever could out "party'n/clubb'n"! All these dam "Bible Thumpers/Scripture Quoters", are some of the "biggest/nastiest" FREAKS(str8 & gay!), out there! Most of these individuals, have been "affect'd & condition'd" by what they were taught(IGNORANCE!!!), ultimately U hafta live your life, for "U & only U"(Righteously, PERIOD)!!!(...meanwhile, if I'm destined for Hell, @ least, I won't be takin' the "Xpress Train"!!!};-)
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B lamont i agree and love

B lamont i agree and love your comment! well said
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The ignornance of some of the

The ignornance of some of the responses to this post is APPAULING!!! It's amazing that people can condemn someone and something that they know nothing about because they choose to believe that their way is the only and right way. Educate yourself because you sound like blithering idiots! BTW, to the person who said that the world population would be 0 if everyone was gay, YOU ARE DUMB. Their are plenty of gay people who have their own biological children. Being gay is not about where you stick your genitalia, it's about your attraction and emotional connection to someone of the same sex. One day you'll see the light, when you actually let go of your prejudices or you realize that someone close to you is gay and your narrowminded view and opinion is offensive. I pray for your education and tolerance of those who are not exactly like you. BTW, it's been medically proven that being gay is not a choice or option. Educate yourself!
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why can't he just come out

why can't he just come out and tell the truth. He's gay, and on the DL.
anon's picture

yeah well... talk'n bout his

yeah well... talk'n bout his bro was a blista. He look'n like a cold blista too on that cover.
Anonymous's picture

Ok, is OUT s gay magezine?

Ok, is OUT s gay magezine? Bcuz that first picture looked gay as hell!!!
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.....always gotta be somebody

.....always gotta be somebody ignorant.........smh
kitty's picture

Ignorant? No, true. Because

Ignorant? No, true. Because he does a photo shoot for a gay magazine he has to dress up like a flamer? I know gay people that dont dress that gay.
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Maybe you should read the

Maybe you should read the article before you comment......just sayin
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While I applaud his stance I

While I applaud his stance I dont understand the sexy pics for a gay mag if you're not gay...
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yes it is a little

yes it is a little disjunctive isn't it? I think he's wrestling with something, and he still has a crippling fear of finding out what it is.... maybe this is therapy for him... oneday he'll be as strong as he would like other people to be.....
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I don't agree with

I don't agree with homosexuality. There is a reason why only man and woman and reproduce, for if everyone was gay the population would be 0. I also don't feel that I have the right to impose my thoughts or views on anyone else because everyone writes the chapter to their own book, meaning live your life in the fashion that you feel is the best. I think more in terms of living for God not for myself for without his creation and making sure that I have continual existance there would be no me. I also feel its not fair that if someone doesn't agree with gay marriage or homosexuality that they have to be beaten down by the gay community as I feel everyone has the right to their own thought.
Anonymous's picture

I don't agree with

I don't agree with homosexuality. There is a reason why only man and woman and reproduce, for if everyone was gay the population would be 0. I also don't feel that I have the right to impose my thoughts or views on anyone else because everyone writes the chapter to their own book, meaning live your life in the fashion that you feel is the best. I think more in terms of living for God not for myself for without his creation and making sure that I have continual existance there would be no me. I also feel its not fair that if someone doesn't agree with gay marriage or homosexuality that they have to be beaten down by the gay community as I feel everyone has the right to their own thought.
Anonymous's picture

i sooo agree with you....to

i sooo agree with you....to the 20th power...every one wants to push it on you and tell you what you should do or how you should feel.
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While I agree you have the

While I agree you have the right to believe what you believe, I also think they (the LGTBQ community) should have that right also. Because you believe marriage is only between a man and women, they(& I) don't agree and there voice should be heard too. (btw this is coming from a 15 yr old girl who has a heck of a lot more acceptence and less ignorance to other peoples feelings than you. Look at yourself first!)
Anonymous's picture

Come out the closet too

Come out the closet too Micheal!!! Be honest....
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Did you f---?

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I commend Michael Irvin for

I commend Michael Irvin for taking a stand against homophobia.
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whoa, whoa, whoa with people

whoa, whoa, whoa with people dropping bible verses and what not lol. craziness. i really respect him for doing this. that's peace. sexual orientation isn't a choice people. just like you incarnating as a black, white, asian, hispanic etc. person wasn't your choice. it is just who you are in this lifetime. at the end of the day we are spiritual beings having a human experience. what you perceive really doesn't mean much. you are not your sexual orientation, your race, your gender, your status. nope. it's deeper than that. sexuality is just part of the human experience. it does not exist for you to judge or condemn. that simply isn't your place. love and let live :)
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I agree with your post,

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Word to the wise - We might

Word to the wise - We might not choose our race and sex, but we choose our thoughts and character..................which is much more pertinent stuff in determining who we are and what we will be.
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i agree. but what does that

i agree. but what does that have to do with a persons' sexuality? it is apart of a persons' makeup. just because you don't personally understand it, or feel as if you disagree with it does not mean that it is "wrong". how does what someone else does behind closed doors affect your personal life?
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the fact that people are on

the fact that people are on here talking about 'my' god and 'your' god further demonstrates how Lost religions leaves you.. There is one god and it resides in the hearts of all. Just listen. I find the ones who argue this thought up and down do not realize they are pagans and idol worshippers believing god resides in anything other than nature and self. Do some research and tell me hoe the Egyptians used to make it rain and then I might believe how your god is better than mine...*shakes head*lost ones...
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I agree with you and more and

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Please do not let some

Please do not let some hypocritical or hearers, readers of the NOT doers of the Word, mess up your eternity. I hear ya, but please give Non demoninational Christianity a chance. I searched and tryed lots of religions, only to feel the true resonation of how Christianity is the only religion that shows as it says in the Bible how you can only come to the Father (God) through Jesus. So many bypass the fact that the simplicity of Jesus is the complexity of Jesus. Please know that some of us really try to be doers of the Word and not just hearers of the Word, and try our best not to judge, because that is up to God, not us. And what is happening with homosexuality is all in the Bible, it is part of the end. I had much experience with the gay world, and didn't trip, but couldn't believe when my Auntie showed me some wild stuff about it in Genesis I believe, esp. when she, a much studied woman of many many years of the Bible and other countries, explained it to me and then I got it.
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If gays knew for sure that

If gays knew for sure that God didn't approve of it, would they stop being gay? When you can answer that question you'll know the truth about it. Drunks, whores, liars, and murderers, etc don't stop because it's wrong in God's eyes, so keep it real, HOW GOD FEELS ABOUT GAYS DOES NOT MATTER TO THEM. What's funny is how people pick and choose which of His "do's and dont's" they're going to believe. Again, whether God approves of it or not, do you really think gays would stop being gays? That's what kills me about them.......they act like if they believed (knew beyond any doubt) that it was evil that they would stop being gay. But they were born that way, remember? So how could they change if they KNEW beyond any doubt that it was wrong. Be born again? NOW YOU'RE ON TO SOMETHING!!!
V.o.R's picture

If I understood what you were

If I understood what you were saying, I think I would still disagree with you. You talk like you have actually spoken to gay people. How can anyone answer the questions you posed unless they are gay themselves? Wouldn't that be presumptuous of us to pretend to know what all gay people feel and think. The judgement and arrogant in your post is pungent.
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*arrogance

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stopthemadness's picture

Maybe you would understand my

Maybe you would understand my point if you knew that my comment was originally in response to the following comment made by someone else on here: “its funny how everyone has a problem wit gay people and saying its wrong to be gay in gods eye' how do you know its wrong in gods eye's just cause it say's it in book. were you there when the bible was being made so how would anyone know what's true in the bible and whats not how do you know what god thinks about gay people no one really knows but god just because it was put in a book doesint mean thats what god really feels no one knows what he really feels so you cant say something is wrong in gods eyes when you really dont know” To which I replied: “A better question to ask is if gays knew for sure that God didn't approve of it, would they stop being gay? When you can answer that question you'll know the truth about it. Drunks, whores, liars, and murderers, etc don't stop because it's wrong in God's eyes, so keep it real, HOW GOD FEELS ABOUT GAYS DOES NOT MATTER TO THEM. What's funny is how people pick and choose which of His "do's and dont's" they're going to believe. Again, whether God approves of it or not, do you really think gays would stop being gays? That's what kills me about them.......they act like if they believed (knew beyond any doubt) that it was evil that they would stop being gay. But they were born that way, remember? So how could they change if they KNEW beyond any doubt that it was wrong. Be born again? NOW YOU'RE ON TO SOMETHING!!!” My point being : ...that if gays knew for sure that God didn't approve of it, would/could they stop being gay? If they own it and take pride in it - and “were born that way”, would they stop being Gay if they KNEW it was evil / God didn't approve? Isn't it quite arrogant, evil, and 'pungent' that gays would embrace and promote something they didn't know was right or not? I'm obviously not talking about conscience-stricken, humble, penitent gays. I'm talking about those who admittedly don't know if it's right or wrong and yet continue (full fledged and pledged) therein anyhow.
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Anonymous's picture

They're doing to do what they

They're doing to do what they want to do just like 'straight' promiscuous people do.......just like drunks, addicts, liars, theives, whores, and murderers etc, do. It matters not to them if it's wrong, so cut the crap. Would you support a murderer (drunk, addict, thief, whore, prostitute, etc) who took pride in their destructive behavior? It's not rocket science. A girl who bought a dick and a man who bought some titties....to go with his lipstick, wig, dress, and pumps. Yeah okay, A girl with a d*ck, and a pregnant man? Yeah, that's totally right, functional, and the will of God. All I'm saying is stop trying to make God out to be stupid just because you are. Stop putting it on God. Be gay, but don't try to make like God is on board and everyone else should be, too. You don't know that God approves of it. There's circumstantial evidence which would indicate that He does not approve of it: Depression, Suicide, Aids, Surgery, and Soar asses, just to name a few.
V.o.R's picture

and you dont know what God

and you dont know what God approves of either you moron. you sound crazy as bat shit.
Anonymous's picture

Notice how you conveniently

Notice how you conveniently neglected to answer the question?
V.o.R's picture

...that if gays knew for sure

...that if gays knew for sure that God didn't approve of it, would they stop being gay? If they own it and take pride in it - and were born that way, would they stop being Gay if they KNEW it was evil / God didn't approve? Even if I agreed with you that no one REALLY knows if it's evil (which I don't, btw), isn't it quite arrogant and evil that gays would embrace and promote something they didn't know was wrong or not? ....But I'm the moron? Yeah, okay.
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this is wonderful. god bless

this is wonderful. god bless them both
leesh's picture

Being black and being gay are

Being black and being gay are not the same struggle or the same thing. If you are gay and black then that is a completely different struggle and history on its own. But HOMOSEXUALITY and the color of your skin are not one in the same. Nope. No way.
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If he is not gay, why is he

If he is not gay, why is he on a gay magazine with his shirt off? Not only that but standing looking "sexy". He done let some damn white folks turn him into dick beating material. Just to let yall know, there is a gay agenda in hollywood, its a weapon against your children to break up the family unit so more power can go into the elites/the state. Try reading Brave New World to see into the minds of the pervs who need your child to be a gay ho. Black folks are the most perfect way to do this, one day hiphop is going to come out, and it's going to be over. Yall already done see what that one nobody rapper guy with that "I'm Gay, I'm Happy". Its all the brain child of some Jew geniuses...
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