OMG Finally somebody said it. I wish you could repeat it !!!!!!! WAKE UP PEOPLE !!!

I will agree you on this point and this point alone - some natural sisters don't style their hair with the sexy in mind. I think that there many explanations for this but there are two that stick out in my mind - first is that it may just be the process of evolution. Go back and take a look at some of the outrageously hideous hairstyle we sported in the early eighties when perms first introduced. Second, it is simply their choice and they do give two nickels what ya think. I used to be one of those natural sisters who did not bring on the sexy. I didn't know what to do with all that hair and it looked like it too. Well that was in the past. I style with the full intention of bringing on the sexy. I luuuuuv my natural hair, my god. By the way, Rave looks gorgeous. She is a doll and funny as hell. Keep it great young sister.

I will agree you on this point and this point alone - some natural sisters don't style their hair with the sexy in mind. I think that there many explanations for this but there are two that stick out in my mind - first is that it may just be the process of evolution. Go back and take a look at some of the outrageously hideous hairstyle we sported in the early eighties when perms first introduced. Second, it is simply their choice and they do give two nickels what ya think. I used to be one of those natural sisters who did not bring on the sexy. I didn't know what to do with all that hair and it looked like it too. Well that was in the past. I style with the full intention of bringing on the sexy. I luuuuuv my natural hair, my god. By the way, Rave looks gorgeous. She is a doll and funny as hell. Keep it great young sister.

I tend to agree with you on this point and this point only - some sisters don't where their naturals with the sexy in mind and that is their choice or it may be the process of evolution at work. When I began wearing my nature, I use to be one of those sisters. I am proud to say I bring on the sexy (or so I hope) when I style my short fro. However, I would like to point out - go back to the early eighties when the perm became popular - the hairstyles were absolutely hideous. We are engaging and communicating, this is a beautiful thing people. Peace & love to all my sisters and brothers. By the way, Raven is absolutley gorgeous and funny as hell. Keep it great young sister.

I tend to agree with you on this point and this point only - some sisters don't where their naturals with the sexy in mind and that is their choice or it may be the process of evolution at work. When I began wearing my nature, I use to be one of those sisters. I am proud to say I bring on the sexy (or so I hope) when I style my short fro. However, I would like to point out - go back to the early eighties when the perm became popular - the hairstyles were absolutely hideous. We are engaging and communicating, this is a beautiful thing people. Peace & love to all my sisters and brothers. By the way, Raven is absolutley gorgeous and funny as hell. Keep it great young sister.

Ok, as much as I hate to agree with this guys statement, there is some truth to it! Sorry fellow ladies!! Let me preface this by saying I DO NOT hate being black, or hate natural hair or the sisters that rock it...However, the natural, fro, twists, dreads is something that yes is a personal choice, but is not for everyone. It really depends on the shape of your face, how full or slim your face is, your bone structure etc. Sisters do have to be careful and really choose a style that is right for them, not just what you like on someone else or what is easy! The stronger or harsher your features are, the softer the style should be, unless you are going for the Grace Jones look on pupose. If you are on the heavier side and your face is round and plump, Dont rock a short Ceasar, because you have too much face to carry off such a small amount of hair. Dreads really is a case by case basis, for goodness sake they should always be kept up with new growth maintained. I tend to feel the smaller the dread the better. If you have a softer curlier type of hair I would say you have a few more options because the curly hair type gives you a little more versatility. I have had friends go natural and it rocked, but others not so much. One ended up looking like a chubby hardcore lesbian(No Hate). Just find what really works for you. I just want us all to be presented in our BEST possible light!! For those that dont care about presentation and just dont care about what men are attracted to then i guess you can ignore this. But the brother made a valid point and is letting us REALLY know what they are thinking and feeling. So if you are in the dating/marriage market, then I think it's at least worth considering. Blessed day all!!

Many women are natural with Kinky hair and you just don't know it. Because people know little to nothing about the diversity of natural hair and styles and you think it's nothing. Go look at Chime (Hair Crush) on Youtube who looks like a model with kinky natural hair and you'll change your mind about attractiveness. Again, the natural movement it moving faster than you think, women are just doing it differently. Some chop it off like Raven, some transition relaxed hair with two textures and other go natural under wigs/weaves.