instead of talkin about this chris brown crap she should send some money to haiti she form the caibbean to instead of taking ot buy prada gucci channnel versace and parading around the place every day like an idiot them only want to make mills and dong give back any she need to get a 9-5 job like anyone else celebrity my .....

... a mic is no substitute for a therapist. Rihanna needs to get some real help so that she can reconcile this and move on... then, maybe we won't have to hear anymore about the Chris "incident" and she can keep her clothes on.

@Yvonne B of course she would still be with him, because sometimes it takes for the situation to be exposed for the people to realize that there was a problem. You think everything is normal until something goes horribly wrong and you wake up and come to your senses. She even said that herself. That's why she went back to him and then left again, because she realized that her actions were dangerous.

really. still talkin about this damn. she didn't say chris was insecure or controlling but it was implied with the statement that she made. if he was doin all that shit her (highly doubt) then why the hell she stay wit him. if yall think chris crazy and a terrible person than what do yall think of this lil ass girl. and is he was so insecure than why the hell was she ckecking his phone the night of the incident????? okay what ever this situation is real old.

Dammmmnnnnnnnnn. Some of you people have been sipping on some real HATER juice.You all say you are annoyed by Rhi Rhi and yet still you read all the article and felt oblige to comment. Guess that makes Rhi a REAL star then.

When it comes to Rihanna, this site produces the most haters, and ignorami I have ever seen. A young woman was ABUSED, if it were your sister, mother, autie, godmother, I doubt you would be blaming them for them getting abused.So please don't let ur jealousy and hate cloud your judgment, please don't let the envy trickle to ur finger tips and cause you to type, nonsense. The interveiw is old, they asked questions she answered them. Doesn't look like she's asking for sympathic, chick is still making money, still beautiful, got her self a new tenderoni. She's good!.......next

Who gives a F%@K! The reletionship is over. Let sleeping dogs lie. I'm not saying it's right for a man to hit a women. But I'm sure that she started this shat. She needs to move on cause it's apparent she has not.

Beater Brown's way of controlling her was to say negative things to Rihanna. So that she could become dependent on him emotionally.

And I really think RiRi should admit to her own insecurities....as others have said, going through a man's phone is a very insecure thing to do....I did it in a past relationship & I realized I was driving myself up the f*ckin wall & I was so disappointed that I was with a person who made me into a sneaky little mouse....*phew* I saw my way through though LOL!

If I was chris my first single would have been "that's y I smacked this bitch"

You know what, I have seen abused people before. My mother was abused by my father. Your abused when a person beats on you and you dont retaliate. He'll come home and hit on her if the house wasnt clean to his standards, the food wasnt prepare in time, the kids (which was us) making to much noise. She will take it, she would take the beatings while we look on with terror and screaming. While my brothers will jump on my father back and try to pull him off of her. She will leave but will come back with his promises of changing and him being a better man. Now I can say she finally left for good, she finally left because she open her eyes and saw the damage it was doing to her kids. She left with my last three siblings. It was too late for the 5 older kids. One of my brother's is very angry, I can become quite verbally abusive towards my boyfriend. My oldest brother promise himself never to hit a woman, my other two sisters went thru questionable relationships. I have fought with my boyfriend but I wouldnt consider it abuse because I pushed his buttons and challenged him. He had enough and when I threw that blow across his jaw we fought. But he pinned me down enough so I could calm down. Were still together and because of him everyday i try to control that anger inside of me. Rihanna dosent fool me one bit and I am sorry for her but dont ever push the buttons of a person that has seen abuse or been thru it, it will be your worst nightmare. I pray for my elder brother that a woman wouldnt cross him and make him break that promise because I know it wouldnt be a pretty sight if she did.

funny how ignorant folks like ALLEN brag on not having control of their own emotions, stuff like that will land you in jail, keep misleading them young boys saying its okay to hit a woman, you will end up in JAIL, most of the young fools don't have Chris Brown money to only have probation, a man is stronger than a woman and the law willl always leave you on the short end of the stick, they won't care she hit you first if her eyes are black and her lip is busted. As a man you are supposed to be KING not a wild beast

She didn't flat out say " Chris has control issues/insecure". So why make it seem like she did...She didn't even mention Chris name when she was talking about that subject. Also who the hell cares what Fist Brown lame camp thinks of course they aren't going to admit he is anger,violent, womanbeater...

Why are you even still talking about that man?

Oh Plz theres no doubt in my mind that she didnt hit him. They both hit eachother. Not saying its right. Rihanna is just wants more attention. Her 21 yr old ass looking 40. Trust Im not hating just being honest!

Girl go sit the fuck down somewhere! It was yo ass that was insecure and controlling. Hell, you was the one checking HIS text messages which resulted to you getting yo head beat in! I see you haven't learned yo lesson. I believe you attempted to bring him down before, which led to the "bringing down" of yourself! don't nobody give a fuck about you and Chris no more. Go sit the fuck down somewhere and stop seeking attention!!!! No one believes you Rihanna, or don't you get the message! Even if you are telling the truth, no one believes you! You just come across as a lying, spoiled, smothering, cocky, annoying lil bitch who throw fits when she doesn't get her way. If Chris was beating yo ass, you made that choice to stay. It was your fault just as well as his!!!! Yall was two young and dumb mutherfuckers who thought yall annoying asses was sitting on top of the world, until yall asses came tumbling down like loose ass bricks!!! Your plan to keep picking at the dude is not going to repair your career!!! It's not gonna change the fact that you can't sing or perform worth a shit! It's not gonna change the fact that you are willing to do and say anything for the sake of selling albums, and being in front of albums. It's not gonna change your disgustingly readiness to strut around naked! So do yourself a favor and CUT It OUT!!!!!!!!!

posted by sarah Fri, January 15, 2010 2:34 PM Oh Plz theres no doubt in my mind that she didnt hit him. They both hit eachother. Not saying its right. Rihanna is just wants more attention. Her 21 yr old ass looking 40. Trust Im not hating just being honest! <<<<<YOUR DEF HATING....CUZ YOU KNOW DAMN WELL SHE DOESN'T LOOK 40...HALF YALL BITCHS WISH YALL LOOKED LIKE HER....CUT IT OUT

@Nay chick calm down. If you ain't swing on him first then he was wrong for that shit, but Rihanna hit that man first and it just so happens he hits harder. My mom was the person who told me "If she's man enough to throw a punch she should be man enough to take one" Gtf outta here with that bullshit

@Bishplease No one is saying that she wasn't abused. What are you talking about? We're talking about her claims of "insecurity" in the relationship. And as far as your comment on what if it was your sister, mother, autie, godmother.... Well, what if it was your brother, father, uncle, godfather who hit a woman and is really sorry. Wouldn't you want him to get a second chance like everyone else gets? Especially if he hadn't done it before? And PLEASE, don't tell me about him pushing her against the wall unless you're willing to talk about the SLAP to his face before he pushed her.

Until you have been in her shoes and been and abused woman then everyone should not confuse hate with reality...It is so hard to get over something like this it does change the person you are you feel ashamed and battered you blame yourself so until someone has beaten you that is supposed to love you please dont get confused about the real issue Domestice Violence is a problem and MEN and Women die from it every day...

the saddest thing about this incident is it seems that women like rihanna, are the ones getting down on her the most over a man, who they don't even personally know. That just shows what people have been saying a long time ago about relationships between black women. IT tends to be catty , competitive, and just filled with lots of hating and jealousy. Many black women don't have healthy relationships with each other, and these blogs prove that on a daily. At least rihanna still has her close besty, because if not, I don't know how she would have handled all of this scrutiny and hostility coming from women. Its always good to have a friend you can bounce things off of.

I can see it now, some ladies in here just might get punched in the face by a man, and blame themselves,lol How sad, I thought adult humans have self control? As long as we keep on defending a adult mans actions, who has witnessEd first hand the abuse Of his mother, our daughters and sons are doomed.

Just my two cents...who was insecure? Who was the one going through someone's phone and reading text messages? Who was the one that wouldn't let it go? And those are her words. She was the one reading his text messages and just flipping out because she claims she caught him doing whatever. If he was insecure then things would have gone the other way, but she flipped out and was questioning him on his actions...thats not insecure, thats him having monogamy issues and she was insecure. Like I said just my two cents...whooo, I was sweating like a Baptist Preacher just typing that...Team Anthony (Project Runway!) Let the blastin begin in 3,2,1...

she and cassie should stick with modeling. beautiful pic!

People are always doggin her. I dont understand why she cant/shouldnt talk about it. It is an incident that impacted her. If she wants to get something off her chest so what. Chris' camp made sure they said what they had 2 say afer her 20/20 interview. I dont understand how people are sayin that she is fake and only wants sympathy. Clearly she doesnt want anyone to feel sorry for her. I feel like we black people are way too critical of our artists. Gaga's fans got her back. As soon as something bad happens, we act like we cant stand that artist. They are human too. Anywho she still sellin with all the haters.